23 Jan, 2008

He died but no one cared

Where were his friends?

Man's death goes unnoticed in Sydney

SYDNEY, Australia—A man lay dead in his apartment in Australia's largest city for a year before anyone noticed, officials and news reports said recently.

The body of Jorge Chambe, 64, was found in his single bedroom, government-owned flat in the Sydney suburb of Yagoona when police and firefighters broke in, after concerns about his welfare were finally raised.

Decomposition of the body was advanced and bank records indicated Chambe died about a year earlier, officials said.

"It's amazing," Detective-Inspector Ian Prye told reporters. "This guy lives in the suburbs and he dies and no one notices for a year."

In news reports, neighbors at the apartment block described Chambe as a quiet man who was friendly but who kept mostly to himself. He had received federal government welfare payments and his rent was paid automatically by direct debit from his bank account.

His mailbox had filled to overflowing, but no one had noticed a smell or other clues that he had died, the reports said. A worried neighbor finally called housing officials and authorities broke in when Chambe did not respond.

photo courtesy images.google.com & story twincities.com, 1/10/08

Proverbs 18:24

Some friends don't help, but a true friend is closer than your own family.

What does today's God's Story scripture teach us about being a friend?

Today's verse touches on some very important truths to remember about relationships. There are some people who pretend to be "friends". The relationship is superficial. Often this "friendship" is a taking relationship rather than a giving one.

We all need friends who will stick close, listen, forgive, encourage and offer help in both good times and bad.

If you need a genuine friend, try to become one to someone.

Without knowing the story about the man who lay dead in his apartment for a year, I'm guessing he was a lonely person. How could he not be missed for that long? Didn't he have any friends or family?

Loneliness is all around us. Someone you know probably feels cut off and friendless. Maybe it's you sometimes?

Who is someone you know who is lonely? Will you reach out to him or her?

How can we connect today's God's Story scripture to our lives?

  • Thank God for the ultimate friend you have in Jesus Christ! Ask Jesus to show you someone who needs you as a friend. If you are lonely, ask Jesus to give you the courage to start a friendship with someone and trust Jesus as your true friend while you build relationships with others.
  • Pray every day for Jesus to enable you to be like Him in your relationships with others.

How can we connect today's story, God's Story scripture and our story to others?

  • Pray for the opportunity to befriend a lonely person and watch God work!
  • Use today's DAILYBIDE as a topic for discussion in your youth group or small group. Together, come up with a plan to reach out to one or several individuals you know are lonely.
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