28 Sep, 2007

Cover up?

It's amazing what people will do to hide the real story...

Web service gives alibis for adulterers

PARIS—Looking to get away for a weekend fling without getting caught? A new French company provides would-be adulterers with custom-made excuses that help take the danger of discovery out of cheating.

Founded six months ago by former private eye Regine Mourizard, Web-based Ibila can cook up invites to phony weekend seminars, fake emergency phone calls from work, invitations to nonexistent weddings—anything to justify cheating spouses' absence.

Mourizard said her service is aimed at protecting couples and families by allowing adulterers to live their flings undetected.

"If the alibi is well done and the spouse doesn't suspect anything, this can sometimes save marriages," Mourizard told The Associated Press in a telephone interview.

Here's how it works: In an e-mail message or call to Ibila, the prospective client requests an alibi for a specific date and time. Mourizard concocts just the right excuse, taking into account the client's profession and personal circumstances.

She and her co-worker, a computer specialist, draw up fake restaurant and hotel bills, receipts and other documents to help shore up what Mourizard calls her "little white lies."

If the adulterer was supposed to have been away for a seminar, the company can even provide the kinds of freebies—pens, hats and tee-shirts—sometimes given at such events.

The simplest excuses cost euro19 (US$27), while more the more elaborate and time-consuming alibis can run upward of euro150 (US$207).

Mourizard, a 50-year-old mother of two, said it was her experience as a private detective that led her to open Ibila—Europe's second such service, she said.

"For 20 years, I worked to keep people from doing what they wanted to do. And I then thought, 'what if I help them do it, in a safe way?'"

photo courtesy images.google.com & story twincities.com, 9/23/07

Ephesians 4:25

25 Therefore, having put away falsehood, let each one of you speak the truth with his neighbor, for we are members one of another. (ESV)

What does today's God's Story scripture teach us about telling the whole truth?

First of all, think again about today's story about the web service that's available to help people cheat on their spouses without getting caught. Seems almost unbelievable right?

But if we're honest...don't we have to admit that we often go to extreme trouble to try to cover up the real story about some sins in our lives?

Paul is saying that we should not only tell the truth, but we should not practice "falsehood". Maybe this was his term for "a little white lie".

Falsehood is any kind of deception. We may say the exact words needed to make our statement sound true or at least not untrue, but if in the back of our minds we know that we are misleading someone, we're guilty of falsehood. This is a form of lying.

Lying or practicing falsehood not only can destroy friendships, but it destroys trust. Satan tempts us to use this weapon in our personal relationships with family, at school, at work and especially at church. So what do we do?

Stay online with the Lord. His Spirit of Truth in us keeps us honest.

How can we connect today's God's Story scripture to our lives?
  • Confess any way in which you may be struggling to be completely honest with others. Thank God for His forgiveness through Christ. Ask for His help in being full of integrity all the time in all your relationships.
  • Memorize today's verse as a reminder to strive for honesty in everything.
  • Be willing to forgive those who have been guilty of "falsehood" with you.
  • Whenever you find yourself guilty of "a little white lie" this week, make it right with the Lord and with the other person.

How can we connect today's story and God's Story scripture and our story to others?

  • Today's scripture is written especially for relationships between followers of Christ. Pray for the Lord to help people (including yourself) in your youth group and church to be real and honest with each other.
  • Every time you go online next week, let God remind you that He sees and knows everything, no matter what we do to try to cover up our lack of integrity.
  • Use today's DAILYBIDE as a topic for study and discussion with your small group or youth group.
  • Use today's story about the web based alibis to have a conversation with friends and family who need Jesus. Ask them what they think? Listen and you will learn a lot about their value system. Don't judge, but use the story to share part of your story - the part where God is teaching you about trying to be honest about everything.
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Byron and his wife Linda live in Minnesota and their family includes two married sons and daughters-in-law, a grandaughter, and a daughter in college. He loves sports, deep dish pizza, and spending time with his family.