27 Sep, 2006
Don't bite back!
Woman avoids prison for nose bite
St. Cloud, Minn. - A St. Cloud woman avoided going to prison when she was sentenced for biting off a large chunk of another woman's nose.
Crystal Malmanger, 20, had been facing more than seven years in prison after pleading guilty to first-degree assault.
But Stearns County District Judge Kris Davick-Halfen gave her credit for the six months she already has spent in jail, and ordered her to perform 120 hours of community service and pay a fine and restitution.
The judge stayed the seven-year, two-month sentence recommended under the state's sentencing guidelines, meaning that if Malmanger violates the terms of her probation, she could be sent to prison for the full term.
The victim's father was in court and told Davick-Halfen his daughter has forgiven Malmanger, Holson said.
"I think Crystal realizes that this is something that's going to affect (the victim) the rest of her life," Holson said. "They were good friends, and Crystal feels absolutely horrendous."
Malmanger told investigators she was drunk and couldn't remember any details about the Feb. 17 fight because she blacked out. Police needed a search warrant to enter the house where the fight happened to recover the victim's piece of nose.
Holson said Malmanger has completed treatment, has been living at a halfway house and has found a job.
story courtesy twincities.com, 9/15/06
Matthew 5:38-39
Retaliation
38 “You have heard that it was said, ‘An eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth.’ 39 But I say to you, Do not resist the one who is evil. But if anyone slaps you on the right cheek, turn to him the other also. (ESV)
After reading part of God's Story today, what do you think Jesus is teaching us about revenge?
Yeah I know, Jesus mentioned an "eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth" but didn't say anything about a "nose for a nose".
The nose biter in today's story should be very thankful that her friend, the nose bitee, forgave her. No revenge. Just a little justice and an amazing amount of forgiveness!
Let's be honest. When someone "does us wrong", our first inclination is to get even. This is a practical example of our wanting to give in to the pull of our old sinful nature. Often, we'll do or say something that is stupid, immature and sinful in response. We try to excuse our behavior by thinking or saying, "I was just doing to him/her what he/she did to me."
But Jesus has a different way for us to respond. Our desire should not be to get even but to get loving! "Turning the other cheek" is not natural. We can do this only when we allow the supernatural power of the Holy Spirit in us to control us. The result will be the strength to love, forgive, and serve those who hurt us. We can be Christ-like to them, regardless of how they feel or act toward us.
How can you connect today's God's Story to your life?
- Talk to God right now. Confess any actions or attitude of revenge that you have done or had toward someone else. Thank God for His forgiveness through Christ's death on the cross. Ask Jesus to empower you to not get even with others, but instead be loving and forgiving to them.
- Memorize today's scripture to remind yourself how to be like Jesus in one of the most common challenges we face almost every day.
- Whenever you look in the mirror the next couple of weeks and see your nose, let Jesus remind you to evaluate whether or not you are following his teaching about getting even in your relationships at school, at home and at your job.
How can you connect today's story, God's Story and your story to others?
- Pray every morning for Jesus to help you get to loving rather than getting even.
- If you need to forgive someone, do it today. If someone needs your forgiveness, give it today.
- Look for those moments when you can be an example and an encouragement to others to not take revenge. It may not be a popular move on your part, but it may open up some conversations which give you the opportunity to learn the stories of others and share part of your story.
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